How To Treat My Husband Better
I think it’s easy to not give your husband enough credit and get mad so easily. He works all the time. You’re home with the kids. He takes care of himself. You take take of two tiny humans with maybe five minutes to yourself a day. He is able to eat all his food. You feed the kids and then have to share your food with them. The kids constantly are touching you so at the end of the day you don’t want him touching you at all. The thought of one more person even coming near you when you’re sitting there relaxing literally makes you so mad.
But if you think back-before the kids and the crazy life you live now, there was a time you only wanted to be around him. You only wanted him to touch you. You longed for the time alone you got. And now, you brush him off like he’s not important. It’s like I take advantage of the fact that he’s there when I shouldn’t. I should be so thankful he’s around to help me, to be an amazing father to our children, and be the best man and husband I’ve ever met.
I have to do better. I have to make him a priority more because Lord knows once our daughters are grown it’ll just be him and I. He’s my forever. He always has been. Our kids are just guests in our house that we were blessed enough to love and raise. But at the end of the day, my husband picked me to spend forever with and I picked him.
So here’s me starting new today. Giving him the time he so desperately wants and needs me to give to him. Yes, we love our daughters, but we love each other as well. He’s important to me. I’ve seen this man go through so much with me and he’s been so strong for me many times. For that, I’ll always be thankful for. Thanks for sticking by me through it all. Here’s to forever.